Avoiding and Escaping the Friend Zone

The dreaded friend zone

Friend zone. Just saying the words make me cringe.

I’ve been known to fall victim to getting stuck in the dreaded friend zone a few times in my life. It’s the worst possible situation. You’re stuck hanging out with a girl you really like, but she shows no interest in you because she thinks you’re just friends. It’s basically self-torture.

Luckily, there are ways to avoid it and ways to escape the friend zone if you’re stuck in it.

Avoiding It

To do this, make sure to flirt with her right off the bat. You don’t want to wait a few days or weeks in order to let her stick you in the friend zone. If you have been hanging out with a girl for a few months and have yet to kiss, guess what, you’re in the friend zone. For flirting advice, check out my video:

Also, don’t be too agreeable with her whenever she says anything. Share your own opinion when having a conversation with her. Also, make sure to be the leader when it comes to making plans.

Escaping It

This is the tricky part. Escaping the friend zone. The first thing you need to do is stop hanging out with her. You need to reset the relationship, in a way, so that she will start thinking about you in a different light. Don’t return her calls right away. Say you’re too busy to hang out with her. Make her jealous by hanging out with other people, especially girls. And if you don’t have other girls to hang out with, just make your excuses very vague or fib a little.

When you do finally hang out with her again, make sure something is different about how you look. Maybe change a haircut, or pop in contacts, or change your clothes. You want her to start seeing you as a sexual being from now on instead of just a friend.

And finally, after hanging out with her again, go for the kiss. She will probably be off guard, but let her know how you’re feeling and what you want to get out of this relationship now. Maintain your composure and confidence and let her know what you want.

And really, what’s the worst that can happen? She might get freaked out and no longer want to be friends with you? I mean, let’s be honest, do you need another friend here?

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